Be The Change August 29, 2011

What is this thing called transition and why do I care?  The basic term is fairly simple and broad in meaning.  It simply means a change from one state of being to another.  The key word here is being.  This is a state of being not doing.  Doing is not involved in transition.  There is nothing you can “do” to transition.  As you be that which you are, that which you are reveals itself. 

Once you think about this for a few minutes you will realize the profoundness of this statement.  I will repeat it so you can get your head around this, there is nothing you can “do” to transition!  It matters not what type of transition you are experiencing either.  The transition can be gender related, work related, life style related or whatever.  Transition is about being, not doing.   This can appear to be shifting, and you may have different experiences and points of view, but your essence does not change.

Mahatma Gandhi is quoted as saying, “Be the change you desire to see in the world”.  So what does this mean?  It means that your state of being is a product of your desires.  If you are being a woman then you are one and what you “do” follows this.   If you move to a new home far away does this change your state of being?  If you wear the clothes of the opposite sex does this change who you are being?

What I am saying here is transition involves a lot more than just changing your behavior, location or circumstances.  Transition is a change in being-ness at the very core of who you are.  As an example the transgender community often talks about all the physical changes involved, but rarely do they discuss the deep inner changes required to fully transition.  Getting SRS or Breast augmentation does not change who you are or who you are being!

Cis-gender women and men rarely even consider their gender, because it is a perfectly natural state of being to them.  To a transgender person however their state of being seems off and they desire to change or transition to a state that is harmonious.  In order to fully transition then a person must change from one state of being to another.

Gender Transition is more than changing appearances; it is an awareness of the inner self and then simply being it.  The exterior conforms to the state of being.  This comes back to what we discussed earlier, As above so below. (see last blog)  The physical, mental, and spiritual are connected and as one changes the others follow.  This happens in the order of Spiritual, Mental and then Physical.  This means that it is not a conscious choice to change genders, but it is a Spiritual one!

Sequoia Elisabeth

Unity in Gender Diversity

 

As Above So Below August 26, 2011

As above so below; as below so above!  What exactly does this mean?  Why is it important?  I have been thinking about this Universal Law of Correspondence and how it relates to Gender Transition.  So let’s start with the first question, what exactly does this mean?

The Universal Law of Correspondence tells us there is “harmony, agreement and correspondence” between the physical, mental and spiritual realms. There is no separation since everything in the Universe, including you, originates from the One Source. The same pattern is expressed on all planes of existence from the smallest electron to the largest star and vice versa. All is One.

The why is this question important, is a no brainer!  This is the essence of our being; the nature of our very existence!  “It is possible that each of us is a function of what the whole cosmos is doing at a point called here and now. In effect, each of us IS the whole universe looking at itself through our eyes. The universe is conscious and self-aware, a.k.a. God, and this awareness and consciousness is within each of us. In other words, what happened to Jesus was NOT a unique experience that only happened to one man in all history and prehistory, but something that EACH of us can experience directly when we tune in to the consciousness that is the base of our existence.” (Watson, Chris 2007)

Just how this quote (As above so below; as below so above) relates to gender transition is the meat of this blog.  As always I would love to hear your take on how this relates to gender transition.  Here is my take on it.  We are experiencing an enlightenment on the scale of Jesus, Buddha, Babaji and many others.  We are realizing that gender is a human construct and simply does not exist at higher frequencies of existence.  It is necessary in this world to facilitate propagation and fully experience the duality of this world.  Gender supplies balance in a world that requires it, but is rarely in balance.

You may remember me saying, I am a Spiritual Being having a human experience.  This explains this law quite succinctly and adds profound meaning to the saying, as above so below.  This means that here in the below world we are coming into realization of the Oneness with above.  As we do this we experience enlightenment!  I am one with my creator, and in fact I am my creator experiencing a unique aspect of myself, known to me as (insert name).

Gender transition is me knowing myself as more than a simple body, singular dimension, limited animal in a cruel world.  Everyone in this world is experiencing the opposite of who they really are!  As we awaken to the Truth we are set free!  Each person awakens in their own way experiencing life from a unique perspective.

The physical changes experienced in this world do manifest in the higher frequency realms because we are all connected in Oneness.  Seeing the perfection in this is my goal.  What I do in this world impacts my evolution in many dimensions, just as what I do there affects me here!  I am BOTH male & female and Neither!  Love is the answer.

Sequoia Elisabeth

Unity in Gender Diversity

 

Transgender and beyond August 24, 2011

It is time we revisited Transgender, Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation so that everyone understands the meaning of certain words and concepts.  The Unitarian Universalist Church as a wonderful site (beside my own site of course) that gives a good overview of these principles, so please visit by clicking here after you have read this blog of course, lol.

First and foremost it is important to understand that gender and sex are different things and have multiple meanings.  Gender is your self-concept of who you are man, woman, transgender, androgynous or other.  Each individual is born with this, but is not aware of it till the ages of 3-6.  If a discrepancy is perceived then this awareness is often suppressed or denied in order to fit in.  I pray this is changing and from what I have observed it is.  Children are coming out and telling their parents who are actually respecting their concerns.  Cisgender is a term that describes “people who are not trans or gender variant—in other words, those whose gender identities, presentations, and behavior “match” (according to the gender binary) the sex they were assigned at birth.” (UUA.org)

Transgender and/or Trans is a person appearing or attempting to be a member of the opposite sex, such as a transsexual or habitual crossdresser.  This term is often as an umbrella term to include the entire community of individuals who cross gender boundaries on a consistent basis.  For more on terminology I cover it extensively at this link.

Sexual Orientation is also hard wired at birth and does not change, although many people now days are bisexual or pansexual meaning they are open to the individuals personality and not so concerned with physical sex.  A homosexual is attracted to their own sex and will not consider being with the opposite sex, just as a heterosexual is only interested in the opposite sex.  With Transgender individuals these definitions get blurry, so it is up to the individual to identify.  Make no assumptions because each person is different and may change their mind from time to time, especially if they are young and exploring.  The term sex can also mean physical or biological sex.

The traits of the Aquarian Age person is that of being bisexual and androgynous which explains much of the trans-revolution we are experiencing today!   We are moving from the end of the Piscean era to the new era of Aquarian!  I have spoken of this in other blogs and find that this explains much of what I have been experiencing.  I have decided not to get too drastic with my transition because I can see the bigger picture!  I am exactly the person I was meant to be straight from birth!

Does this mean I was not to transition?  Of course not!  That is the purpose of these times and my life is a mirror of the greater whole just as your life is!  All I am saying is I have chosen not to have sex change surgery.  Your path is up to you and if you have questions I am happy to assist!  Please visit the website below and explore the Gender Learning Center.  It goes into gender at length as well as sexual orientation and the different aspects of each of these.  The eBook “Sex and Sexuality” is available free on this website also.  The eBook is an extensive look at gender, sex, orientation, sexuality, and more.  So please give it a look see.   The website below lists the info in several formats -video, powerpoint, written, quiz, and eBook, so you can find what works best for your learning method.

Sequoia Elisabeth

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Illusions August 23, 2011

We discussed a few days ago “Being in the world, but not of it” which applies directly to the topic today.  I recommend watching a few movies to get a good idea of what I speak.  Here is a list of movies that explain reality “What the Bleep do we know”, “Leap!”, What Dreams May Come” and many more.  The book “Disappearance of the Universe” is another great source of info. (See this Link)  Now that you have an idea of the Illusion I speak, let us move on.

Here is the best video I could find on 2012 Galactic Alignment and what it means.  There is much information out there now and from several different perspectives so it is good to explore this so you get a good feel for what is to come.  Another movie that is a must see is The Quickening – about the changes related to 2012 explaining the Mayan Calendar in terms that apply to everyone today.

Understand that what you believe is what you will experience or some facsimile of it.  Personally I am looking forward to the Astrological events in the coming days.  It is also important to understand that we are experiencing the shift right now and it will continue on till 2015 or later.  The Age of Aquarius is not supposed to appear until 2060 or so.  The important part of all these predictions is simply this.  (I do hope you have fun with 2012, not taking it too seriously)

God operates through each of us and as we think, speak, and do, reality is created.  The thoughts and ideas you embrace, think about and believe are the ones you experience.   What happens exactly remains to be seen, but you can be assured that if you enter into this time with fear in your heart it will not be pleasant.  On the other hand if you see a new age filled with Joy, Harmony, and Oneness then we all will experience Heaven on Earth.  I cannot over emphasize the importance of staying positive and focusing on your inner desires.  Envision the future you wish to experience and start walking in that direction.  Do things you believe will take you there.  Do not get side tracked with the illusion that the world is in chaos, people are suffering, or massive earth changes will destroy all life on earth.  It is all an Illusion created by fear and false Gods.

The point I wish to make here is this, we are a small portion of the greater whole and are being swept along by forces far greater than we can even imagine.  All of life is a representation of Divine Consciousness and your experience of it.  Your thoughts, words and actions are what propel you through this ocean of energy.  The coming days, including today are significant as your awareness broadens and you understand more deeply the Cosmic forces guiding your path.  It is all Good!

Sequoia Elisabeth

Unity in Gender Diversity

The New World Order August 21, 2011

Daily jobs are very important to the workings of society, and our economic system is being rewritten out of necessity.  It no longer sustains us.  Jobs are changing accordingly.  New jobs are sprouting up like daisies while many old jobs are becoming obsolete.  The number of Americans who are self employed or working contract is sky rocketing.  We have seen this phenomena portrayed in movies such as “Robots” and others where technology takes over certain jobs creating other jobs in new fields such as machine maintenance and computer programming.  Corporations that thrive are the ones who embrace change and forge a niche for themselves in the new world, much as our founding fathers did when they came to this country some five centuries ago.

Many people believe that they came to find religious freedom and that was a small part of it, but mostly it was the corporations of Europe, mostly England who were looking for growth possibilities.  They found them at the expense of the native peoples of America and many other countries around the globe.  This transition was indeed bloody and painful for all involved, but I believe that nothing happens without our consent on some level.

The native people did not realize they had given consent for this kind of growth, but on a Spiritual level they knew.  It was part of the growth of consciousness which is inevitable.  So do not feel bad for either side in history because what was meant to be will be.  I hold the Native Americans in great esteem for the honor and wisdom in which they live life.   The same goes for the natives of Africa and Australia and all the other players we have in the world, they are all part of the larger expansion in human consciousness.

The role of the frequency holder, light worker, or peacemaker is to see beyond “reality” which is really illusion and hold a vision of peace, harmony and oneness (Divine Truth) out for all to see!  As we live the life of our dreams to the ideals we envision, and others do the same this realization of Truth or expansion of Human Consciousness reaches a tipping point, and the whole world transforms.

Can you envision an ideal world?  What would it be like?  I have written about this in the eBook “a Love Based Society” and in the article “A Perfect Society“.  Click the link to get your no cost copy.

I invite you to share your vision in the comments section, and with your partner, friends and family, because this is how we grow.  Hold a vision, share it all around, even write a book about it, and eventually your dream becomes reality.  As I have said a thousand times, be careful what you wish for – you might just get it!  Next issue will look at the illusions and perceived costs of this evolution.

Sequoia Elisabeth

Unity in Gender Diversity

Art of Detachment August 19, 2011

The art of detachment is a Buddhist teaching which also has its Christian counterpart.  Jesus teaches this and likely learned it from the Buddhist teachers he had.  It works like this; be in the world but not of it.  What this means is to fully experience life and at the same time release any attachment you have to it.  Please see the blog of Jan. 26, 2011 for a previous explanation of The Art of Detachment.  From this point on I would like to provide other perspectives so the picture becomes clearer.

Live fully and completely without being attached to the outcome.  Accept what you have as a gift and make the most of it!  Once you have experienced this know that you can experience anything you desire.  Do you see how living with passion can bring vitality to life?  If not you soon will.

“Detachment means rising above the status quo, without passing judgment, and watching the drama unfold without becoming physically or emotionally involved. Detachment doesn’t mean burying your head in the sand so that you need not watch the action as it unfolds; it means, being there, observing from an objective space, and remembering who you are, a spiritual being watching the drama of polarization reach its climax and fail so that a new paradigm of victory can be birthed by those of us who refuse to buy into a perpetual game of winners and losers. Detachment addresses the need of the spiritually inclined to remove oneself from the chaos while observing and learning valuable lessons about this temporary physical existence. … But remember, we are spiritual beings having a human experience and not the other way around. So we can remove ourselves from the drama when we’ve learned all we need to know about polarization and separation. When we finally realize who we really are, and how we are all equally part of the same creative manifestation, we will finally learn the fine art of detachment and the truth behind our cosmic ancestry and oneness.” (Dawn Abel, 2002)

The key is to tap into your desire and experience it fully, and once experienced you release it and move to the next.  Here is a different view of Detachment that provides a deeper insight to its value and use.

“Detachment not only releases joy; it is also the secret of health. It is the best medical insurance in the world, and not only because it can keep us free from physical habits that sap our vitality. Most illness has a serious emotional element. While there is an important place for physical measures in the treatment of disease, a mind at peace and a heart flooded with love can release healing powers that strengthen and revitalize the physical system. Strength can be regained even after years of emotional instability. In extreme cases, I believe, recovery can be brought about even from what seems a terminal illness.

Today, of course, it is widely appreciated that because of advances in medical knowledge, we can expect to live much longer than was reasonable at the beginning of the twentieth century. But we can lead lives that are not only longer but richer, more loving, and more productive. The next steps in stretching the limits of human health and longevity, I believe, will not be in biotechnology. They will come from learning to govern the way we think and feel. Detachment is a longevity skill. Freedom from compulsive emotional entanglements is the best insurance against stress. More than that, by opening a window onto a fuller, loftier view of life than that dictated by self-interest, detachment brings a sense of purpose. Without a reason for living, the human being withers and dies inside. However paradoxical it may sound, it is detachment that enables us to give ourselves wholeheartedly to worthwhile work without ever getting depressed, despondent, or burned out – right into the last days of our lives.” (The Blue Mountain Center of Meditation)

I wish I could describe the feeling of Joy that comes from detachment, but I will just say “Give it a go – put this to the test”!  Love your partner, family, pet, job, home, etc. completely without being attached to any outcomes such as living the next 20 years together, being happy, or even being healthy.  They could be hit by a car tomorrow and become paraplegic or even die!  I have certainly seen this happen more times than I would of liked.  I have also seen people who had this experience and made their lives into celebrations!  Taking the lemons you are given and making lemonade is one of the most satisfying things you will ever do!

Sequoia Elisabeth

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Toning For Healing August 17, 2011

Toning is the practice of using the voice to facilitate healing and shifting the perception of reality.  It may be used individually or in groups of 2 or more; the more people toning at the same time with the same intention the more profound the effects of the toning.  It is like prayer in musical form with the accuracy of mathematics.

Toning is a harmonic frequency created by the human voice and powered by the intention put into it.  The healing effects are profound and often this technique it used unconsciously.  Have you ever stubbed your toe and shouted OOOOHHH?  The sound you make after hurting yourself is a form of toning!  I remember as a child I had terrible growing pains and I would tone myself to sleep.  At the time I called it moaning, lol.  It is the same thing however with one big difference.  Toning is powered by intention and is a conscious act of healing which makes it more powerful.

To tone one simply makes a sound in a constant tone for as long as the breath will last and then repeats this tone several times.  Afterward silence is maintained for a period equal to the toning.  The sound can be anything and it is good to set an intention or make a prayer prior to toning.  A group toning together with hands held amplifies the effect.  The toning can be a word, a vowel or just about anything.  “Omm” is a powerful sound to make because it is said to be God’s name in certain religions.  The important part is the tone should have meaning to you and the group.  Notice the similarity in the sound of “O”, “Om”, God!

The Native Americans and other ancient peoples have been using toning for centuries in their ceremonies and healing sessions.  It is a natural process that facilitates the flow of energy through the body.  This video I found on youtube explains what I am saying here with Divine Harmony, please take a look and use this practice consciously in your life!

Sequoia Elisabeth

Unity in Gender Diversity

The Law of Attraction Exposed August 16, 2011

Contrast is what brings Joy into our lives yet we still seek connection in those we meet.  What is this “sameness” we are looking for?  Why is it that we are repulsed by those individuals who are different than us?  When picking friends why is it we choose who we do?  These questions are all related and the answer is simple, you may have already guessed it.

In regard to picking friends and being attracted to certain people over others it is a simple Universal Law, The Law of Attraction which states, “Like attracts Like”.  This is the same law that created our planet, the galaxy, and all that you know.   It is the same law that draws to you everything in your life.  You have a vibrational frequency which resonates an energy signature.  This energy attracts or repels everything in your life.  Thoughts are energy and vibrate just as you do and when certain thoughts or energy vibrations are claimed those things are attracted into your life.  That is why I say all thoughts and words are prayers.  Focus on what you desire!

Imagine the Big Bang!  Millions of particles are expanding outward and those which are alike are drawn together, slowly they form suns, planets and moons.  The Universe is still expanding outward and particles are still being drawn together, except now we are conscious of this process.  We are the observers who are witnessing our own creation!

Bringing this analogy back to earth, our relationships are no different in that we are attracting and repulsing all the time based on our thoughts, words and actions which reflect our vibrational frequency.  Ever walked into a room where two people have been arguing and they are still mad?  This is the energy of repulsion. Or if you are with two people in Love it is so easy to feel the attraction they have for each other.  Of course being the one in Love is what we are all seeking where we are drawn to our partner in such a way as Joy flows with every heart beat!  Remember like attracts like, so be the person you desire!  Yes, that means just what it says; you are attracting people who are like you!

Contrast brings Joy to us and it is sameness or connection we seek so how can you have both?  Simply by looking at things with the eyes of your Father or to say that another way, see the Christ in every person you meet!  We are all the same in this way.  We are each a child of Christ, born of the same star-stuff and yet vibrating with unique energy.  When I say Jesus walks beside me take that literally, because each person I meet is the Christ!

To see that spark in another is one of the greatest gifts there is.  Next time you feel yourself drawn to another person or thing, it is because they match your energy vibration, or at least compliment you.  Understanding the dynamics of energy opens so many doors and simply makes life easier and more enjoyable.  For more on energy dynamics and the workings of life, check out my book, “Livin’ Large – A journey of Love”.

Sequoia Elisabeth

Unity in Gender Diversity

 

Law of Mentalism Revisited August 15, 2011

We have arrived at the beginning – the First Immutable Universal Law of Mentalism.   The First Universal Law is first because understanding this Law opens the door to the other seven.  I am not talking about the Law of Attraction here because it is basic to all laws weaving them together.  I have dedicated several blog posts to the Law of Attraction and will again. Let us move on to our discussion for today.

“Of the seven Universal Laws, the first three are immutable, eternal Laws, meaning they are Absolute and can never be changed or transcended. They have always existed and will always exist. The other four laws are transitory, mutable Laws meaning that they can be transcended or at least “better used” to create your ideal reality. This is not to say that you should ignore these four Laws or attempt to defy them for even if you do they will still govern your existence. Your aim is to master each of the seven Universal Laws and only then learn to transcend the mutable ones.

The Law of Mentalism: “The All is Mind – The Universe is Mental”. The first of the Universal Laws tells us that “All is Mind”. That everything we see and experience in our physical world has its origin in the invisible, mental realm. It tells us that there is a single Universal Consciousness – the Universal Mind – from which all things manifest. All energy and matter at all levels is created by and is subordinate to the Omnipresent Universal Mind. Your mind is part of the Universal Mind – the same in kind with the only difference being one of degree. Your reality is a manifestation of your mind. This is true Mind Power.” (Kotsos 2011)

Sooo…, What do you think? (That is meant as a pun, giggles ;- ) Consider this quote by Ernest Holmes, the author of Science of Mind. “There is but one Mind, the Mind of God, and that Mind is my Mind Now.”  It is hard to believe that God could be thinking some of the things I have been thinking, especially in my adolescence; however, I will not get into the ego mind vs. the God Mind in this blog because we have covered that before (write to me if you would like to know more).  The power of this Universal Law is that by careful attention and diligent weeding you can change your thoughts to align with your desires.  The Universal Mind can also be shifted in your perception so that you experience your desires, although ultimately all desires are the same; to know God.  Even the desire to wipe God from your Mind results in knowing God!  We are all God – Godding!

Sequoia Elisabeth

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Law of Correspondence Revisited August 14, 2011

The power in this immutable Law of the Universe cannot be understated.  Once you understand this Law fully everything in your life will transform for the better.  It is not hard either, however it does take time to see this Law in action and therefore understand it fully.  The first step is to state this Second Universal Law and contemplate its meaning.

The Law of Correspondence: “As above, so below; as below, so above”. This Law tells us there is “harmony, agreement and correspondence” between the physical, mental and spiritual realms. There is no separation since everything in the Universe, including you, originates from the One Source. The same pattern is expressed on all planes of existence from the smallest electron to the largest star and vice versa. All is One. The Ancient Greek Temple of Apollo at Delphi was referring to this great Law of Correspondence in the inscription “Know thyself and thou shalt know all the mysteries of the gods and the Universe”. (Kotsos 2011)

We are One!  When you hear the statement God is all there is, this pretty much sums it up, but as simple as it is, it can be very difficult to conceptualize.  Stop what you are doing or thinking at this time and contemplate that “We are all One”.  This means that everything is connected and working together even though the opposite may appear sometimes.  In fact your opposite is a part of you too.  The significance of this is that what you see around you, what is happening to you and what is happening inside you are all a part of YOU.  Each aspect of your being is connected, your thoughts, your body, and your spirit are always in communication and when your mind is open you can be aware of this fact.

The Spirit has a larger view than the mental or physical aspects of your being so it is generally a good idea to be aware of the Spirit and follow its guidance.  Since we are all one this guidance in effect is God.  I have written about this many times before, so please understand that if God is all there is; then you are God, even if this is a small aspect of God.  As stated above the same pattern is expressed on all planes of existence.  A hologram is an image that reflects in 3D while containing the whole.  The One Source is reflected in all things at all levels.  When you start looking for patterns repeated on different levels it is amazing what reveals itself.  For instance, each cell in your body is alive, take the cell out of the body and it will continue living.  Within the cells are organs which are alive they are smaller patterns of the larger whole.  You are the larger whole.  Each person on earth makes up a collective human race like cells in the body of Gaia.  The solar system is made up of bodies called planets, and galaxies are made up of bodies called solar systems….

If you put a mirror in front of a mirror you see the pattern repeated as far as the eye can see.  This is what the holographic effect is.  This is what the One Source has done.  Everything in the Universe is a reflection of God.  So, the next time you get angry with your brother for taking something that belonged to you, ask yourself, if we are one, who really owns that something?  Is it really gone if we are all One?  When you give a present to your best friend, aren’t you giving that gift to yourself?  Since we are all One!  Maybe you can see the significance of this Universal Law, so now go out and test it, look for it and experience it.  Oneness is profound, almost beyond belief!!

Sequoia Elisabeth

Unity in Gender Diversity